You still can’t believe that she didn’t turn you down when you approached her at the bar or on the street. What is more unbelievable is that she agreed to date you and become your girlfriend. Dating a hot girl is an exciting experience; however, it has its drawbacks too. Of course, you are happy to have such a beauty by your side. At the same time, her great looks can become a hazard for your relationship. Interestingly enough, those guys who managed to get stunning girlfriends are not able to develop their relationships with them. Jealousy and insecurity drive the men crazy and they often end up breaking up with their hot girls. In order not to repeat other guys’ mistakes, consider the following suggestions and learn how to deal with a hot chick.
Get rid of self-doubt.
It’s hard to understand those guys who don’t take pleasure in their girl’s appearance but get even frustrated that she is too gorgeous. One thing that you should remember is that she dresses up and looks at her best for you and not to impress others. Open your eyes and, finally, realize it. You should be on cloud nine because such a beauty chose you and not some other guy.
Be cool.
It can be pretty annoying to see how the male passers-by check out your girl even when you walk together. What you should really do is to look at your girlfriend, not at the strangers. It may turn out that she is constantly trying to get your attention while you’re too busy monitoring the trajectory of other men’s glances. Again, she looks so perfect to catch your eye, not to turn other men’s heads.
Start with yourself.
There is no such a problem as a hot girlfriend. It’s all about your attitude and inner prejudices. If you get mad and jealous when you notice other men look at her, then the problem is in you. She is not to blame for her beauty, it’s as clear as a day. Jealousy comes from insecurity and lack of confidence. Learn to control your feelings when you notice somebody’s prolonged look at your girl. Don’t be so greedy; let other people contemplate your girl’s stunning looks.
Discuss it with her.
She may not even know that you are so concerned about her appearance and other people’s attention to it. You may bewilder her by getting bad-tempered for no reason apparent to her. If you’ve never discussed your concerns, how she is to know why you’re upset or annoyed. To avoid any troubles, you should find the time to bring this matter up and share your doubts with her. First of all, you’ll feel much better after getting your worries off your chest and she’ll finally realize the cause of your mood swings. Secondly, she’ll get an opportunity to make it clear to you that there is nothing to worry about.
Ignore other people.
What can be advised in your case is just to focus your attention on your date, not on other people. If you know that she turns other men’s heads, why are you looking at them and not at her? It means that you can’t appreciate what you have. Learn to do that; otherwise, you’ll be at the risk of losing her.
Bask in her attraction.
Having a hot girlfriend is great since you get automatically hotter. Those random guys looking at your girl will probably look at you as well to check out that lucky one who won her heart.
Try to get in her shoes.
You think it’s easy for a hot girl to be always in the limelight? The answer is No. She wants to look her best because it boosts her confidence. The other side of the coin is those constant glances and stares that she is pretty tired of. At times, she might feel insecure and embarrassed by too much attention to her appearance. Now, imagine how she feels knowing that you are concerned about her looks and you can’t go out together without your usual attack of jealousy. She cares about your relationship and often prefers staying at home to going out in order to avoid any trouble.
Respect her the way she is.
The worst thing you can do is to try to change her. It’s totally forbidden. Don’t make any remarks concerning her style and makeup. It will make the things even worse as you can offend her. That’s her choice. What is more, you liked her for being so hot and now you want her to change? That’s weird.
Trust her.
The pillar stone of every relationship is mutual trust. If she attracts other men’s attention it doesn’t mean that she is ready to leave you for any guy who’ll look at her and compliment her. If she is with you, appreciate it and don’t make any false assumptions. If she says she wants to be with you, trust her and do your best to make her happy.
