A student at Portland State University decided to dump her boyfriend after he complained about her “beer gut” in a series of text messages — but now she says she sees the whole experience as a “positive thing.”
“My goal has been to turn this into a positive thing and empower everyone to feel good about themselves and stand up for themselves,” says Shelby Johnson, in a statement to Fox News. “It took me a long time to get where I am with my self esteem and I want every woman out there to know they can get there too! Regardless of the men who say otherwise.”
Johnson, 23, had been dating her now-ex-boyfriend for a few months before he expressed his concerns about her supposed beer belly, prompting her to share the troubling exchange on social media in late March.
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@babyyygucci
I am 120 pounds. I have been for about 5 months.
My partner said this to me. Am I overreacting for feeling hurt by this? I’m at a loss and just can’t even comprehend how someone who claims to love me can say this.
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“You’re definitely getting a beer gut babe,” wrote the boyfriend in one of his texts, after explaining to Johnson that she allegedly didn’t look the same as she did in the Instagram pics he saw “leading up to meeting [her].”
Johnson, who wrote on Twitter that she was “feeling hurt” by her boyfriend’s words, later took to Twitter to ask followers if she was “overreacting,” but many commenters assured her she was not.
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I am 120 pounds. I have been for about 5 months.
My partner said this to me. Am I overreacting for feeling hurt by this? I’m at a loss and just can’t even comprehend how someone who claims to love me can say this. pic.twitter.com/JpOrtkSZ4h
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Um what, you look amazing!!!
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30 Mar
I am 120 pounds. I have been for about 5 months.
My partner said this to me. Am I overreacting for feeling hurt by this? I’m at a loss and just can’t even comprehend how someone who claims to love me can say this. pic.twitter.com/JpOrtkSZ4h
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@ButImTigerWoods
Me trying to find the “beer gut” pic.twitter.com/AMdeJhNG1h
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@babyyygucci
30 Mar
I am 120 pounds. I have been for about 5 months.
My partner said this to me. Am I overreacting for feeling hurt by this? I’m at a loss and just can’t even comprehend how someone who claims to love me can say this. pic.twitter.com/JpOrtkSZ4h
T
@witchyfemme
HONEY. I was in this spot. He made me run on a treadmill while I was crying and having a panic attack. Leave now. Please
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30 Mar
I am 120 pounds. I have been for about 5 months.
My partner said this to me. Am I overreacting for feeling hurt by this? I’m at a loss and just can’t even comprehend how someone who claims to love me can say this. pic.twitter.com/JpOrtkSZ4h
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THROW HIM AWAY
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Johnson also confirmed to followers that she was the same weight — 120 pounds — when she met her boyfriend, and that she had actually struggled to gain weight since she was in high school.
“I was 80-90 and my doctors never figured out why I couldn’t keep on weight. At 20, I started gaining. When I did, I never felt happier and more healthy,” she wrote.
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Johnson returned to Twitter the following day to tell followers that she planned on dumping the boyfriend, or as she put it, “dropping a hefty 180 pounds.”
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My journey of my body has been long. In highschool I was 80-90 and my doctors never figured out why I couldn’t keep on weight. At 20, I started gaining. When i did, I never felt happier and more healthy. I worked hard for this body. I am 120 pounds of pure growth. pic.twitter.com/vyLGUuT0fu
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@babyyygucci
I haven’t been able to see him since I posted this. With the help of my therapist today I have a plan to end things and move on. I will be seeing him tomorrow and dropping a hefty 180 pounds. The support I got is amazing. I really thought only my few twitter friends would reply!
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Soon afterward, Johnson confirmed she was newly single — and that her ex felt like a jerk for being called out online.
“I want to update you guys that we are broken up. He was really unhappy and felt like s—, especially after knowing my tweet went viral,” wrote Johnson. “He has told me he’ll use this as a learning experience to be a better person.
“And here I am, single and free.”
